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Last Sunday's column ("To 'affair proof' marriage, stay connected," Oct. 21, Las Vegas Review Journal) was inspired by a website touting extramarital affairs as an alternative to divorce. I noted the irony of "preserving" the institution of marriage by diluting its meaning.In contrast, I wondered aloud about a deeper, more courageous, more credible intervention to a disconnected, languishing, vapid marriage. I said: Why wouldn't you instead go to your spouse, take a breath and say, "It's not okay to abandon the work of connection, nor to abandon participation in sexual courtship. I won't tolerate it. If you want to grow old with me, then you'll need to be fixing those things tout suite."I got a wealth of letters, some samples of which follow Your question implies that the person to whom it's directed is committed to doing the work. Built into the meaning of marriage is radical accountability. I'm saying that my question will either jump start a renewed movement toward thriving marriage or it will flush the real truth out of the grass. If my partner is no longer committed to an authentic marriage, then I would argue my partner has a moral Omega Seamaster Deville Automatic duty to say that out loud: "Hey, this ain't personal, but, while I don't want to get a divorce, I have decided, henceforth, to mail in my marriage vows."I feel compelled to answer your question. It appears that many spouses have no idea what it takes emotionally for their spouse to actually ASK for more sex and then the devastating impact on the marriage when the asking spouse gets turned down.I had a similar conversation with my own spouse about spicing things up. His response, "Well, I guess." However, he never followed up, and when I initiated, he basically went along with it half heartedly. So, there are many of us who tried to have that conversation.It's a huge risk to ask for a renewed commitment to thriving sexual courtship. And it's consequential devastating, as you say to be turned down with a cavalier shrug. So, if we have the courage to ask the question, and, in asking, we make an unhappy truth overt, well then, yes, I suppose some folks have reason to remain legally married. Some folks at that point would renegotiate with themselves. Mail in the marriage their spouse apparently has already been mailing in. And, then, feel perfectly justified in arranging their life with the compensations of extramarital sex.I wish there was a way of measuring, at the end of life, how many folks felt this ultimately was a good choice.Really? After all that research, you think threatening a partner would work? I've learned you either are a lover or not. People like to take chances, experience different scenarios, regardless of their periodic contentment. I find you a bit silly, and perhaps out of touch. But I do enjoy your column.You misunderstand. I'm not suggesting people threaten their partner. I am insisting that marriage is about accountability. That life partners hold each other accountable. That one of the greatest gifts you can give your mate is your unwavering self respect. Or, said another way, amongst other attributes you might seek, always fall Omega Seamaster On Nato

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boundaries, accountability and self respect sometimes demand we threaten ourselves. Not only DO I know, but I have said explicitly that marriage/monogamy are biologically contraindicated in primates.Every instinct we possess (biologically speaking) contradicts the idea. But then, likewise does "Thou Shalt Not Kill" contradict our biology. (Ever Omega Constellation Mens Quartz

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watch chimpanzees on NatGeo television?)Becoming a human being means regularly not doing any number of things "people like to do."I'll agree that I'm "silly and out of touch," if you'll agree that you are, how shall I say, braving waters ankle deep in the wading pool of moral reasoning.

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