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Louise Schneiders, who runs the mentoring program, says the match is "as good as it gets. This wonderful little girl is going to do so well. That's what we focus on here, supporting the parents so they can support the child."
Guzman burst into tears. Actually, everyone at CARE burst into tears.
"It was magical," De Guzman said. "Just knowing my purpose."
But surgical amputation among babies born with the syndrome is exceedingly rare. In the nearly 20 years since Jay was born, his mother had never run across anyone who had gone through it, too. So when De Guzman heard about Contra Costa's CARE Parent Network, a First Five funded program that provides support for parents with newly diagnosed special needs children, the Pleasant Hill mother volunteered to help, even though the likelihood of her services being needed was slim.
Some 600 Contra Costa families have been through CARE's parent mentor program, and similar programs are run through family support agencies in San Francisco, Alameda and Marin counties. Most of those families are dealing with autistic spectrum disorders or Down syndrome. For Morgan's family, the odds of a match here were small. De Guzman herself says she spent 20 years looking for one.
"I Omega Seamaster 300 Leather Band knew it was bad because they wouldn't let me see it," the Pittsburg mother said. "They let me hold Morgie for 45 minutes, before the midwife asked, 'Is it OK for me to have these other doctors come down?' We saw every podiatrist, every pediatric, orthopedic, neonatal and an infection control specialist. They didn't understand what they were looking at. Her foot had turned bright green."
"We've been talking ever since," Southern Mixon said.
A Children's Hospital Oakland staff member was looking for a mentor mother for a special case a baby, Morgan, was facing amputation.
"The hardest thing," Southern Mixon said, "was there was nobody to talk to about it. Kaiser sent me to a psychiatrist, but she had no idea what I was talking about. They sent a social worker who seemed more like a grief counselor. It was almost like somebody died."
"You want a thrasher leg," De Guzman said.
But, she recalls telling CARE coordinator Louise Schneiders, when she finished the parent mentor training, "You know what? Something tells me I need to be there."
"(Jay) wants a tattoo," De Guzman said. "I said, 'Laminate your leg.'" weeks before Thanksgiving, Morgan was walking on her own, her dark ringlets bouncing as she bobbed her way across the Mixons' living room, and glanced back at her mother and her best friend.
But the cause didn't really matter. The solution was amputation.
It's devastating to discover that your child your perfect, chubby cheeked baby has a serious physical disability. But when you learn the condition is so rare that a phalanx of doctors is dumbstruck, you need the support of someone who has been through the same traumatic thing.
a year ago that Ruvi De Guzman moved back to California with her son, Jordan Barcelona Jay, to his friends a teen whose leg had been amputated Omega Speedmaster 57 On Wrist
De Guzman was there whenever she was needed. She was there for Morgan's first birthday party, there on the phone after the surgery that removed Morgan's foot just above the ankle Jan. 2, and there for the prosthetic fittings that began in March.
When Jay got his first leg 19 years ago there weren't many options. That has changed dramatically, De Guzman said. Now, you can get flexible feet, sports specific legs and even customizable laminates that allow injured veterans, for example, to sport the American flag or a camouflage print on prosthetic limbs.
Tamika Southern Mixon's labor and delivery was fast and smooth, until the midwife spotted baby Morgan's foot dangling by a shred of tissue. Then the tiny limb turned green.
Fifteen minutes later, the two women were talking by phone.
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his propensity for practical jokes. Once during a supermarket jaunt, he twisted his foot around so it faced backward, causing near cardiac arrest among fellow shoppers. At summer camp, he stashed his artificial leg in his camp counselor's sleeping bag.
Then came Ruvi.
That's a tough time, too, De Guzman said. It takes a baby months to figure out that the annoying, dragging appendage has a purpose. There was no one to walk De Guzman down that path with her son, to tell her what avenues to pursue for help. There was no one to warn her that getting hit by a prosthetic, even accidentally, is like "getting hit by a bat."
Over the frightening months that followed, specialists weighed in on possible causes: amniotic band syndrome, at first, then Gorham's, a horrifying disease that dissolves bones. They finally decided a blood clot must have disrupted vascular progress before Morgan was born.
But Southern Mixon already knows Morgan will be getting her prosthetic foot tweaked every two or three months, and completely refitted every nine. She knows to hang on to an old foot for beach outings.
below the knee at birth. Jay had suffered amniotic band syndrome, a condition affecting 1 in 10,000 babies. Clubfoot and similar congenital defects result when strands of amniotic tissue wrap around a limb, tourniquet style, in utero.
Being able to share a sense of dark humor helps. While there's nothing funny about Morgan's tiny foot, even her mother breaks into gales of laughter as De Guzman recounts Jay's athletic antics he swims, skis and wrestles and Omega Speedmaster Apollo 11
De Guzman had just finished the parent mentor training, an intense, full day session and several, shorter follow ups, when the call came.
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